Thursday, April 8, 2010

Seriously?

Okay. Here is what I am sick of... Chics that give gals like me and my friends a bad name by acting all crazy/possessive/psycho/passive-aggressive. I would say that 99% of the girls I am friends with are super confident, self-aware ladies that don't want any drama or bullshit in their lives, especially from guys. Ironically enough, guys are always saying "I don't want any drama, blah, blah, blah..." Yet, almost every guy I know is currently either putting up with bullshit girlfriend insecurities, or worse, they are acting like an insecure little girl themselves, by staying in bad relationships just because the girl is "nice" or "sweet". If I hear this excuse one more time, I am going to scream! Someone can be "nice and sweet" all day long, but that doesn't make them right for you! Fucking grow a pair and do what makes YOU happy, instead of staying in ridiculous relationships that are going nowhere, just because you're too much of a pussy to end it when you know it's not right! Movies and T.V. would have us all believe that guys are the macho, womanizing, commitment-phobic types that "can't be tied down". Well, in my experience, things are the exact opposite. For years, my friends and I have been dealing with dudes who want to move in after the second date, are unbelievably jealous, and who cry waaaaaayyyy too much. I don't understand why people can't just hang out and have fun? I sometimes feel like my world is a virtual wasteland of smart, good-looking, funny men who have issues I want nothing to do with. They're either married/girl-friended, an alcoholic, or are my boss. None of them seem particularly happy with where they are or who they are with and sometimes hint, or blatantly say, they'd rather be with me... Well, fuck that. If you want me, you can leave your girlfriend/wife and come get me, but I really hope you don't because I'd probably just sleep with you and then never call. Apparently, I am more of a guy than most guys out there.

1 comment:

  1. For some reason people don't want to find out who they are and what they want anymore. They just settle for what life unceremoniously dumps in their lap, and then they complain about it for the rest of their lives. I'm inclined to believe that the zombie apocalypse is already here, and it's just lamer than we ever imagined.

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